我想对某人说，
I wish to tell you something, my dear friend
你常说：为什么我永远都得不到别人的认同和爱护呢? 为什么我的朋友都忽视我？为什么我喜欢的人，都不看我一眼？
You always ask: Why i cant get approval or love from other? Why my friends just ignore me when we are hanging out together, no one even bother what i am saying? Why the one i love, dont even take a glance at me?
问题也许出在你身上。
Problem might be due to you, my dear. Please listen to me.
你我都有一个共同点， 你知道是什么，你也知道我说的就是你。
You, and me, we both share a similarity. You know which i am referring to, and know that i am leaving a message to you.
我们周围所有的人，都是我们无法拥有的人。我们只能分享生活。
People around us, we never can posses. We can only share ourlife with them.
你的感情模式，就是一直 在重复童年的经验。
Your emotional mode, is actually repeating what you have been experienced in past, during your childhood.
不断的渴求，却又得不到。
Unable to pull yourself from your desire, although you knew that you cant reach it.
你必须好好让童年的创伤痊愈，否则你就会一直重复过去的经验，
You have to let the trauma of childhood to be heal, otherwise, you will always repeating the past.
你会被自己无穷无尽的渴望给溺死。陷入里面，无法自拔。
And, you will drown in your endless desire. Into the inside, cannot extricate yourself.
这么多年了， 老是听你反复的问这个问题。
My dear, it has been awhile, that i am listening to this question again and again.
小学、中学、大学、社会。。
primary school, secondary school, university, society.
更多的安慰，也不能让你解脱，只能让你暂时得到安慰。
Should more comfort for you, not let you escape from the pain you are bearing. But it ought to give you temporarily comfort. Please let me remind you that, it will gone as time passes.
但你的渴望，会像无底洞一样，无法填满。
But your desire, as in bottomless pit, never be filled up.
越不看你一眼的人， 你也想得到。
The person that ignore you, you want them.
我知道你的感受，我也明白。
I undersand how do you feel, indeed.
这么多年了，一直找不到合理的理由向你解释。
So many years, unable to find a reasonable explanation to you.
终于， 无意中看的电视剧的对白，恍然大悟。
Suddenly, understood why.
人， 所之可以成为焦点，是因为他先看重自己，爱自己， 才能散发属于自己独特的色彩。
People are the focus can be, because they first value themselves and love themselves, and that enable them to distribute their own unique color.
别人， 喜欢你，是因为这种色彩， 因为你是特别的， 独一无二。
Others, like you, because this color, because you are special, unique.
也只有爱自己，才能这样。
Only love yourself, to the case.
不要和我们认识的那个 人一样， 他很坏，但也很可怜。所之他对家庭做出这么大的伤害，问题，
也源自以童年被父母抛弃的回忆。
Do not let us be as that person we knew, he is very bad, but also very poor. The reason of why his action led so much damage and problems to his family, reason behind his attitude, is the truth that he was abandoned by his family when he was a child. That memory made him scared to lose everything, again. So he is trying so hard to hold on to everything he thought he own. But he never knew that one person cannot own other. Again, we should share lifes rather than being possesive. Dont get me wrong. I am not referring you to him.
我想原谅他了，你呢？
I wish to forgive him. How about you?
你， 也愿意为自己解开锁头，让自己爱你自己吗？
Are you willing to let go of yourself, to let you love YOU?
from somebody I care
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